Divorce by people, it is an important turning point in terms of psycho-social. After divorce, individuals may have economic problems, child care with responsibility for the abandonment of the household, they can also experience psychological problems such as loneliness. For some, this situation leads to different decisions in their lives, such as remarriage, change of surroundings, and for some, they can remain a trauma that they can not forget until the end of their lives. These people are admitted to overcome the trauma of different coping styles. The purpose of this study is to investigate the role of religious and spiritual influences in coping after divorce. Personality traits of individuals and strategies for coping after divorce; tried to examine the issue of religious achievement. Phenomenological research design from qualitative research methods; data collection tools are semi-structured interview technique and the study area of the research is composed of participants living in İstanbul province. In our study of religious and spiritual influences in the post-divorce process, we interviewed twenty divorced person, ten men and ten women. The majority of participants are middle-aged in adulthood; the level of education is high; people who have spent most of their lives in Istanbul and have certain professions. Referring to the marriage age of the participants, 9 persons between 25-30 years of age; 8 people between 19-24 years are married. Interviewees are predominantly married in the young adulthood. Especially among the female participants are those who are starting to work to make their living in the divorce process or afterwards. Participants generally mentioned that the decision to divorce was not immediate. Mostly they have told us that they made this decision two years ago. There are even participants who are waiting for the right time, such as children, to get a divorce. Participants said that they have learned most religious information from school (9 people) and their families (9 people). The majority of respondents perceive themselves as religious (13 people); they also stated that their families were religious (12 people). Those who indicate that their ex-wife is religious (9 people) and slightly religious (8 people) are the weight. Participants in the survey were asked questions about the material and spiritual problems they had experienced after the divorce. According to the results of the research, most of the participants expressed that they are mentally comfortable, they are relieved from tension and they are happier even though they have problems such as economic troubles and loneliness after divorce. In our research, women in our society if it is received until the difficulties of being a divorced woman as the most female participants without worrying about divorce decree or social prejudices surrounding people's opinions. There are a majority of women who voiced that the priority is their own life. In this, the majority of the women participating in the interview can be the profession and the influence of their ages. However, even if the majority of women are working before the divorce, they are forced both materially and spiritually because they are both working and custody of the children. Nonetheless, being free in their lifestyles and decisions makes them happy. As stated by Bayraktar (2010: 90), women who have a high education level or a profession in the post-divorce period are stronger and more positive. Participants are particularly impatient because they are hasty to get married and make mistakes. He also did not divorce earlier; there are those who regret that the old partner has tolerated it for a long time, waiting for the old partner to take too much of the bad treatment or to recover. In particular, some of the women, they think they misbehave because they get to do their jobs the top of their husbands. However, there are also those who regret not being more patient, concerned and understanding. In general, men are more positive attitude than women to get married again. Women are reluctant to remarry as they are suffering from the same problems. According to the research result, there are participants who say that their children are happier after being divorced, as well as participants who can not fully understand how their children feel. In general, children who endorse the divorce of their parents are either aged or witnessed violence in the family. There are participants who go to psychiatrists and take medication. These people have reported that medicines are useful in overcoming the processes they live in. Some of them did not go to the psychiatrist because they thought it was expensive. There have also been people who point out that there is no need for treatment among the participants and that the person who knows himself does not have to go. Especially with children of female participants has said that they have to stand strong for their children. The medicines recommended by psychiatrists did not use the heavy future because of their disruption. Because they feel they have to stand and work for their children. This shows that the most powerful factor in coping with their children's trauma of divorce. Reading a book and listening to music are participants who said that they came good in the process. Some of the participants did not fully fulfill their prayers for reasons such as increasing divorce and working hours after the divorce, depression experienced as a result of divorce; but they continue to pray. Women religious orientation but not in conjunction with the effect of divorce also been a move away against religion; they continued to pray especially. Some of them they look more religion if they are more than happy; in difficult times stated that the hypocrisy of addressing religion. Those who pointed out that they are religious / manuelized by men also mentioned the most prayer. As we have seen in our research, some participants hope