In this paper, I tried to address how to have a healthy communication with the child from infancy should be and it is the undeniable influence of the child on the potential of being a human. In this context, the points should be taken into consideration in application through technical subjects like infant attachment, ideal parental attitudes, gaining internal motivation, Active Listening, I-Message. Communication based on universal values is defined and the opinions of important people especially about children and childhood are listed. By addressing human relationships in infancy, emphasis is placed on the importance of attachment theory, which is at the root of not only a healthy parent-child relationship, but also on the basis of later social relationships and emphasizes the basic function of the relationship of attachment. The different parental attitudes that parents develop based on their warmth, responsiveness and control characteristics, and the parenting style of the family are examined. How to communicate with the child through the Active Listening, I-Message topics and the effects on the child’s personality are tried to show. As a result, it is stated that the goal of a healthy and virtuous society can only be achieved by cultivating conscientious, compassionate, good people and the issue is edifying human being rather than raising a child